How To Attract Beautiful Asian Women
Dean | Jul 08, 2011 | Comments 0
How To Attract Beautiful Asian Women
Hi, this is your wingman Dean C., the guy who literally “wrote the book” on how to pick up girls. I’d like to share several quick ideas to help you with meeting beautiful Asian women. (Because the truth is, dating Asian girls requires specific tactics that you wouldn’t use with non-Asian women…)
OK, let’s get started. This very first word of advice on dating Asian girls will probably seem a little self evident, but it’s especially necessary for you to present cleanliness and very good personal hygiene when you’re around Asian women. They are big on this! They really believe in the adage “cleanliness is next to Godliness.”
If you spend time with Asian women, it’s noticeable how much they value hygiene and maintaining a presentable appearance. Typically, an Asian girl will not exit her home without checking her hair and makeup, and if they’re just going to run a quick errand. (Western women, on the other hand, will often just put on a baseball cap and a baggy sweatshirt.)
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Secrets Of Dating Asian Women
The bottom line is, when you are going out to meet Asian women or spend time with the girl you like, you need to make extra sure that you look clean, fresh and presentable. With Asian women, it’s better for you to be a bit overdressed; you never want to be underdressed.
Especially when you’re out on dates with Asian girls! You should always assume that a beautiful Asian woman is going to show up looking her best. If she shows up wearing a classy dress and you walk in wearing shorts and a tee-shirt, you can forget about ever seeing that girl again.
Extra Hint: If you’ve got facial hair, I suggest you get rid of it. Women (and not just Asian girls) nearly always agree that men look best when they are clean-shaven. This is especially true with Asian women because the men of their culture almost never have facial hair, and their skin is very soft and sensitive. They don’t want to rub up against stubble. So if a beard, moustache or goattee has been part of your “look” for a while, go ahead and shave it off. Make a fresh start. Trust me, it’s going to feel good.
My next tip is that you’ve got to let Asian girls know that you’re an organized person who has his life totally under control. Asian women do not understand the idea of being a “slacker,” or trying to “find your purpose” in life. In Asian cultures, the men work hard and have a clear sense of purpose. They are also self-sufficient. Anything else is considered abnormal and unattractive. So if you are sharing an apartment with a slob roommate, or you hate your job and are trying to figure out what you really want to do in life, these are things you’ll need to conceal from Asian women (and hopefully you will address these problems and get them fixed soon).
I’m not saying that you need to have some high-powered career, or pull down a huge salary. You just need to demonstrate to Asian women that you are organized and in control of your future. You can live in a small apartment and drive a second-hand car — just make sure they are very clean and well-maintained.
You should not be saddled with a lot of debt. And when you’re hanging out with Asian women, you should mention your plans for the future and ambitions. She will then imagine herself as part of your future.
Western girls will often feel attracted to guys who are “bad boys” or slackers. It’s possible for a guy to have no direction in life, but still bang Western women because he turns them on sexually. You won’t see attractive Asian women falling for this. These types of men totally turn them off. They require a man to be stable and secure, because that’s the only way THEY will feel secure. Beautiful Asian women are repelled by this type of guy. It’s very important for them to be with a man who is stable and secure, and can make them feel the same way.
You must always project a sense of calmness, confidence, masculinity and inner strength. Give her the sense that you are in firm control of your life and future. This will make you naturally attractive to beautiful Asian girls.
More Secrets Of Seducing Asian Women…
If you haven’t visited Asia or spent much time around Asian culture, the sexy exotic women of Asia may seem like somewhat of a mystery to you. The attitude of Asian women towards dating, and finding the right relationship, are quite different from how girls from your own country view it. I understand that in essence, “women are women,” but there definitely are characteristics of beautiful Asian girls that you need to be aware of in order to really capture their interest. Personally, I think Asian women can be some of the most exquisite of all Asian women, and I’ve dated many — so I have some specific insights into dating stunning Asian women which I think you’ll find useful.
The first thing to keep in mind is that beautiful Asian girls are used to guys taking them out on “traditional” dates and trying to impress them by spending money, and trying to talk about their own positive qualities in an attempt to impress her. The truth is, she’s heard all of it before in numerous variations and versions. In this case less is more. The less you obviously are trying to impress her, the more a girl (particularly an Asian girl) will be impressed. Try listening to her and getting her to talk about herself. All you need is a small degree of interest. This frames you as a challenge — a guy who is NOT easily impressed — and Asian girls will find this intriguing and different.
You should not try to “date” a hot Asian girl in the normal Western way. You’ll probably wind up spending a bunch of money taking her out to a restaurant, and at the end of the night you’ll get a handshake or an awkward kiss on the cheek — and she might never speak to you again.
This type of date is not only predictable; it also adds pressures and expectations to the evening. These is what every one else has been doing with her. Instead, you should set up a first date that is simpler, cheaper and less predictable. Meet up with her for drinks, or a cup of coffee. She is less prepared and expectant. The atmosphere is less charged, more relaxed and thus more fun without the usual dating expectations.
Every guy tries to get beautiful Asian girls out on dates and impress them by talking about themselves and spending money. The fact remains, she has heard it all before in many varieties and types. Less is more in this type of situation. The less you try to impress her, the more the Asian girl is impressed. Try listening to her and getting her to talk about herself. All you need is a faint degree of interest. This makes you seem very different from all of the other guys who have taken her on dates and tried to win her approval. Be a bit naughty. Don’t answer her questions directly; be playful and make something up when she asks you about your job, or your background. Do not over do it, but do not show her you are overly impressed with her looks. Naughty actions and statements leave them wondering more about the kind of guy you are. Projecting a playful “bad boy vibe” (but not overdoing it) can go far with sexy Asian girls.
Don’t forget that hot Asian women have a lot of admirers and suitors. Most of them would want to give you little test to see how firm you are. Do not just give in to every one of her whims. You can playfully tease her, or deflect her questions and change the subject.
Believe it or not, an Asian girl would rate you more if she discovers you are admired by other Asian girls. This is why you shouldn’t focus all of your time and attention on one Asian girl. Widen out and let them know you are trying to decide and have a lot of admirers. You will surprised with the results.
The next thing to understand is that most Asian girls have very strong ties to their families. Start spending time around Asian girls, and you will realize how strong their family bonds are. So get to know more about her family. Be interested in her family, make a positive impression on her loved ones, and it will unquestionably boost your chances of success.
Honesty is also a quality that is highly respected in Asian societies and it’s important if you want to get the girl — and keep her. Men of honor never abandon their responsibilities or break their commitments. Prove yourself as a man of honor and strong character — but with a playful “bad boy” edge — and you will be quite attractive to hot Asian women.
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